Save Your Relationship With Touch

By Tarisha Tourok 

Ecstatic love-making is all about taking one's time and exploring new ways of being and interacting.

The following practice will take you on a journey of pleasure and sensual awakening. The most essential key for this practice is to be fully present with yourself and your partner when you are receiving or giving touch.

In our modern busy lives we are so engrossed in doing and achieving that our senses are quite often dulled.

• Do you feel connected to your body?
• Do you savour your food?
• Are you fully present when you relate to others?
• Do you listen attentively and really hear what the other is saying?

We are capable of so much pleasure! Are you ready to fully step in your body and become an ecstatic pleasure Goddess?

Touch is one of the greatest ways to step into this experience. Do you know that babies don't survive if they don't get at least some touch?

Human beings love to be touched, and for most people an intimate relationship is the only place where the crucial need of touch can be satisfied.

So many of my clients start crying when I simply put my hand on their head and heart with the intention to nourish. They say "my partner rarely touches me like that. I so need it. Just a loving warm touch. I miss touch and I don't understand why we stopped doing it."

• Do you get enough touch?
• Do you give a lot of sensual loving touch to your partner?

Conscious Sensual Touch Practice

I invite you to practice conscious and sensual touch with your lover. As you are the one reading this article, I suggest that you give the touch first. And then, after your lover is bathed in love and connected to his body, you can ask him to do the same for you.

You will need several things for this practice:

1. Feathers
2. Soft silky sheet or a piece of fabric
3. Some fur
4. Your warm loving hands

Make sure that the room is really warm and invite your partner to undress and lie on his tummy. Soft music will help you to create relaxing and romantic atmosphere.

Start feathering over the whole body, and do it very, very slowly. Repeat minimum 5 times.

Then cover the body with a soft silky sheet and move it slowly over the body, pulling it in different directions and sliding across the whole body.

Then you can touch your lover with fur, again do is slowly and be fully present.

Then, touch slightly the whole body with your fingertips, slowly and sensually.

At the end, massage the head with your hands and ask your partner to turn over. Do the same sequence on the other side of the body.

Remember to stay fully present, actively sending love to your beloved. Enjoy the touch, enjoy giving love to the other, it will fill you up as well.

The secret here is, do everything very slowly. It will allow your partner to experience many more sensations, fully relax into pleasure and let go.

Now it's your turn to awaken your senses and enjoy slow sensuous touch!

This practice has a capacity to create so much more intimacy in your relationship. Enjoy!

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