How Do You Know If He's In Love?

By Hannah E Fairfield 

Are you trying to figure out whether the guy you're seeing is as interested in you as you are in him? Does he act like he loves you, but he never says it? So you just want to hear those three simple words, but they just won't come out of his mouth! What do you do? Learn to read his signs!

Men communicate with actions far better than they do with language. They are physical creatures and are not as verbal as us women. If a guy truly cares for you, he will show it in his own way. It can be very discomforting for a man if you constantly question whether or not he cares for you, so it is important to be able to decode his actions and discern this for yourself. You can easily hurt his feelings by claiming that he doesn't care about you, and a hurt man is a man who won't want to be around you!

While he may not say the words out loud, he will undoubtedly behave differently when he loves a woman. Does he go the extra mile to make you smile? Can you tell that he's putting effort into planning dates or trying to make you feel good about yourself? These are his ways of showing that he loves you and you should take them as a sign that he cares.

Acknowledging your ideas, opinions and preferences is something a guy will do when he cares about you. He'll want your input on lots of things. Does his new sweater look good? What movie do you want to see? Does the dinner he made for you need more salt? When a guy is in love, he will instinctually want to please you. Asking for your thoughts on various scenarios is a good indication that he loves you.

Does he support you in all that you do? Whether it's resolving an argument with your sister or planning a project when you're up for a big promotion at work, if he cares about you, he will be by your side. He doesn't want you to be upset or sad, and he will stand by you. He will do what he can to help you succeed, and be proud of you when you do.

Sensitivity to your feelings is another good way of discerning whether your man genuinely cares for you. Does he make sure that you know he is there for you? If you are angry after a bad day at work or depressed after an unpleasant conversation with a friend, is he willing to listen and try to make you feel better? Being there for you emotionally means he loves you.

Does he shy away when you talk about taking your relationship to the next level? Whether or not that's committing to being in an exclusive relationship with you, moving in together or popping the question, it is important to know whether or not he's in it for the long haul and not still wondering whether or not you are the girl for him.

Love and relationships are never simple - and what fun would it be if they were? Just open your eyes and pay attention to your guy's behavior. You'll be able to figure out where his heart lies from a few little signs.

To find out more about how to get male attention, click Signs He Wants You. You'll learn all the secrets to make a man Fall in Love with you.